Top 10-Ways To Be Happy

by  Darpan Sachdeva

Happiness is predominantly a result of personal decisions, and opting for happiness is likely the most intelligent lifestyle decision one can embrace. Recent research indicates that individuals who experience happiness have a 35% lower likelihood of premature death compared to those who are unhappy!

Below, we will explore ten methods to reprogram our thoughts and mental processes, enabling us to experience the happiness we rightly deserve. This liberation empowers us to lead a life filled with love and happiness. The greater our happiness, the more we attract positive energies—this aligns with the proven law of attraction recognized by the universe.

1.Stop Complaining

Throughout the day, we encounter myriad reasons to express discontent, whether it be the weather, traffic, or the service received at a restaurant. However, dwelling on these matters doesn’t enhance our situation; instead, it casts a shadow on our mood, fostering feelings of unhappiness, low spirits, and depression. Our emotional state is within our control; we have the power to choose our response to any circumstance. We can either succumb to a negative mindset or rise above it, finding happiness despite the aspects we dislike.

Avoid criticizing everything you don’t comprehend. Embrace the diversity in people and situations, refraining from using differences as a basis for criticism. Ultimately, our collective desire is to experience happiness. Let’s permit ourselves and others to revel in that happiness.

2.Stop proving yourself to be always right

Many of us grapple with the mere notion of being incorrect, and some may even go to the extent of estranging themselves from close friends or loved ones just to assert their correctness. Breaking free from this habit is key to fostering improved relationships for everyone involved. Embracing moments and allowing events to unfold without the need to prove oneself to loved ones is the optimal path to happiness and content existence.

As the renowned Wayne Dyer once stated,

“Would I rather be right or would I rather be kind?”

It’s worth reflecting on this question the next time one finds oneself entangled in a struggle.

3.Stop Negativity

Many of the obstacles we encounter in life are, in fact, self-created illusions residing in our minds. These fabricated challenges, void of reality, hinder our progress more than our tangible circumstances. Indulging in judgment, envy, or anger eventually rebounds negatively. Negative thoughts can initiate detrimental speech, just as harmful words incite destructive actions. These imaginary barriers distort our perceptions of our capabilities and limit our understanding of what is achievable and feasible.

An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you  – Goi Nasu

4.Stop blaming 

Assume accountability for your actions and their consequences. Embracing responsibility empowers you to control your life; blaming your circumstances to external factors can leave you feeling powerless.

“Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems. Look for someone who won’t let you face them alone.” – Unknown

5. Stop dwelling on the past

The narrative of your past is but a tale. Each person carries a past, frequently laden with anguish, letdowns, overlooked chances, and unrealized hopes. Regardless of how your history unfolds, it remains merely a narrative – therefore, do not permit it to sway you. Craft significance in the present moment.

“Learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had.” – Unknown

6. Stop resistance to change

Transformation is invariably beneficial. Embracing change facilitates enhancements in your life and positively influences the lives of those around you. Every life journey involves transformation. As individuals, we frequently find solace in the familiar, and once we settle into comfort, resistance to change sets in. Pursue your bliss—welcome it wholeheartedly.

“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” – Joseph Campbell

7.Stop living your life to other people’s expectations

We spend a significant portion of our lifetime conforming to societal expectations, attempting to conform to established social norms.

How much more content would we be if, instead, we pursued our passions and approached life on our own terms?

Our existence becomes consumed by the constant endeavor to please others and meet their expectations, causing us to lose command over our own lives. We become so engrossed in fulfilling everyone else’s desires that we lose sight of our own sources of happiness, personal wants, and needs. Ultimately, we neglect ourselves. With only one life to live – the one we’re living right now – it is crucial to seize it, take ownership, and resist being swayed by the opinions of others. Each of us possesses unique talents, gifts, and capabilities. It is essential to foster and showcase our individual strengths, contributing by doing what we excel at and love, as opposed to conforming to perceived societal norms.

“Your life is not a performance for others; it’s a journey meant for you to define. Break free from the script society handed you and start writing your own story.” – Unknown

8.Stop Attachment

Attachments foster an environment of apprehension. Relying on possessions hinders genuine happiness. Embracing this mindset in reality is challenging, but genuine love, not tethered to fear-driven attachments, is the key to lasting happiness. True love doesn’t depreciate over time; it multiplies and returns when shared generously. Extend love to those deserving and in need.

Cultivate love for the Earth and those instrumental in shaping your identity. Cherish your own existence. Show concern for those cheering your success and offering support in challenging moments. Refrain from harsh criticisms and express gratitude for the positive influences in your life.

“Love as much as you can from wherever you are.” – Thaddeus Golas

9.Stop excuses

At times, we find ourselves falling into the pattern of generating justifications without genuine reasons. We possess ample time, resources, and energy at our disposal, and it is crucial to capitalize on our youth, well-being, prosperity, leisure, and, above all, our existence. Instead of progressing and dedicating efforts to enhance our personal development and life circumstances, we become stagnant, deceiving ourselves with a myriad of unfounded excuses that lack validity in the real world.

“Excuses will always be there for you; opportunity won’t.” – Unknown

10. Stop on your fears

Our fears unfortunately serve as self-imposed obstacles. Envision a world where these obstacles disappear—how would that make you feel?

Close your eyes and contemplate that scenario for a moment. Experience the positive emotions? Now strive to exist in that liberated state.

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. Don’t let fear stop you; let it propel you toward greatness.” – Oprah Winfrey

Darpan Sachdeva is the CEO and Founder of Nobelthoughts.com. Driven by a profound dedication to Entrepreneurship, Self-development, and Success over an extended period, Darpan initiated his website with the aim of enlightening and motivating individuals globally who share similar aspirations. His mission is to encourage like-minded individuals to consistently pursue success, irrespective of their circumstances, perpetually moving forward, maintaining resilience, and extracting valuable lessons from every challenge.